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They dress you up, they dress you down

I felt like I was taking a bit of a chance by filming a cross-dressing F/FM scene with Mike Stryker and Dana Kane. Being a little bit self-indulgent. Sure, we all love a bit of gender-bending, but would anyone want to watch it? Do people really want gender politics in their spanking porn?


Mike and I play siblings united in our rejection of default gender roles. Mike feels fabulous in eyeliner and lipstick, and I prefer the comfort of baggy clothes that free me up to run around and climb trees. Unfortunately, our absent parents aren't the tolerant sort, and they've hired an uber-strict governess for the summer to turn us back to the straight and narrow. The fearsome Ms Kane embarks on a harsh discipline regime, part of which is forcing us out of our preferred clothing and into more conservative garments. Once Mike is dressed in a smart suit and tie and I've put on a pretty frock and feminine underwear, she takes us both over the knee in an attempt to spank the non-conformity out of us.

This is a super-hot fantasy for me, but it's a tricky one too. Hypothetically, if someone were to find this hot scene because they actually believed that tomboys and transvestites deserved to be punished, I wouldn't be able to share their enjoyment. For me, this is one of those scenes where sympathy with the spankees as the mistreated party who are just trying to be themselves is essential. Once that's understood, scenes like this can actually stand as a reverse political statement in favour of freedom of expression.

Having said that, I wouldn't go so far as to call this a serious film. On the contrary, it's joyously light-hearted and camp. Mike played it up to the hilt, and the clash of personalities resulted in a lot of fun banter. I adored Dana's satirical performance as the repressive governess, precisely because I know that in real life we're on the same side.

And - well, Mike Stryker paddled in lipstick. What's not to love?

The New Governess runs at nearly 19 minutes and includes both F/M and F/F, with Mike and I both subjected to hand spankings, over the knee paddlings and the cane. It comes with 60 hand-captured screengrabs and 24 high definition photos by Tricia Sullivan.

Our other recent F/F film also plays on the theme of dressing up, and being dressed by undressed by a lady in charge. In After the Play Party, however, the mood is much more consensual and sexy. This is the steamiest Zoe and I ever got on camera, and it made for a highly memorable, intensely erotic scene.


This film is the sequel to Adornment. At the start of the evening, Zoe dressed me up to her liking, and gave me some vivid cane stripes to wear under my outfit. Now, we're home from the play party and fizzing with energy after the fun we had while we were out. But the night is still young.

Zoe toys with me and teases me, pulling at the nipple clamps I've been wearing all evening under my dress. She spanks, straps and canes me over the thin silk, then makes me remove the dress. She delights in cruelly removing the painful nipple clamps, and the sexual energy intensifies as both of us become increasingly excited by the pleasure she takes in hurting me. Finally, she takes her time giving me a hard beating with the riding crop and a thick cane.


I have a big soft spot for our latest F/F film, Adornment. It was the first scene we filmed on my shoot with Zoe Montana in February, and the erotic energy between us is just electric. Zoe and I have never been lovers, but we've enjoyed a lot of spanking play on and off camera and I just adore our connection. Her style is such a delicious blend of dominant, playful, maternal, teasing and strict. She has a way of putting people at their ease and I can always take a lot of punishment from her.

This scene is the first of two. We play a new domme/sub couple who are going out to a play party for the first time. Zoe dresses her sub up in an elegant satin evening dress, stockings, suspenders, jewellery, nipple clamps and, finally, adds some vivid cane stripes to complete my outfit. 

Click to view trailer for Adornment

I don't usually indulge in a cold caning as my first scene of an all-day shoot, but it was lovely to have some beautifully visible stripes for once. The cane was thin and whippy, the type I really hate, but Zoe's sensual authority held me enthralled and made me want to be brave for her. The cold, slow, building burn of the nipple clamps combined with the hot, sharp, layered pain of the caning was exquisite, threatening to overwhelm me with sensation.

The inspiration for this scene was twofold. Firstly, I remembered a sensual clip I'd filmed with Lady Sonia on my last shoot with her, in which she cropped me standing in front of a floor-to-ceiling mirror. Lady Sonia always dresses you up sexily for her shoots, insisting on fully fashioned stockings and ultra-high heels. I thought it would be lovely to build on her dominant, glamorous dressing-room persona with an F/F caning that was intended for decoration rather than for punishment. There's something deliciously objectifying about being given some carefully measured stripes not for any misdemeanour, but simply for the sake of appearances.

The other memory which fed into this scene, I didn't realise until I'd finished it. As I was editing it I was thinking that some people might find it odd that the dressing happens this way round; the domme dressing up her sub. Of course there's the objectification factor, and I've been dressed by my doms enough times to know that it can be very submissive to be turned into your partner's fetish object or dress-up doll. But on video, the result is a domme kneeling in front of her sub - to fasten shoes and suspender straps - and that's not something you see very often.

However, it feels absolutely natural to me, and one reason is how I met Tom. I've told this story before on my other blog. In the summer after my first year of university, I was visiting an old childhood friend who had moved to London and was living in a big shared house. She warned me that while I was visiting there might be some people taking nude photos. At that point in my life I had no experience of such things, but I said I didn't mind. 

In fact, before the afternoon was out I'd stripped off, drunk a couple of glasses of wine and was merrily joining in. It was my first experience of naughty modelling and I had a brilliant time. My friend had a big walk-in wardrobe and we had great fun playing dress-up together. I still have those photos somewhere - I'll dig them out and post one if you're interested.

A few hours later my friend's housemates came home, and they came in to say hello. I was in her room, putting on a suspender belt. I heard the sound of people arriving behind me but all my attention was occupied by the tricksy fastening at the back which I kept fumbling with my fingers. I called out, "Can someone help me with my stockings please?"

Moments later I felt warm fingers deftly attaching the clips behind me. I didn't see who it was until they said they were done, and I turned round and saw a dark-haired man kneeling behind me with brilliant blue eyes and a neatly trimmed goatee beard. We introduced ourselves, laughing, and I think he might have complimented me on my bottom. But I was reeling from a moment of kinky recognition that had passed between us, a current of potential energy. I was a confused wee mite at that age, still trying to convince myself that I wasn't kinky because it was bad and wrong, so I spent the rest of the weekend alternately flirting with him and pretending I didn't like him, but we got it all sorted out in the end.

Anyway, ever since then I've found it perfectly natural for a dominant to be kneeling by a sub if what they're doing is adjusting your stockings. In fact there's something thrillingly horny about the possessiveness of the gesture, their proximity to your exposed bottom, the teasing brush of the backs of their fingers against your sensitive skin.

Zoe and I were hornier on this shoot than we've ever shown on camera previously - and in part two of this storyline our interaction becomes even more explicit.

New series: The Morpheus Club

I'm a little bit in love with the music in our newest film. I had a lot of fun editing this one, not least because that combination of powerful classical cello with more industrial rhythms is guaranteed to get me wet, regardless of whether it's accompanied by any sexy visuals. I don't know why, something about the vibrations perhaps. But it doesn't hurt that Amelia Jane Rutherford looks utterly gorgeous writhing under splashes of hot red wax:


The movie is called Pandora's Initiation, and is episode one of our new BDSM/spanking series, The Morpheus Club.

New slavegirl Pandora is nervous, untrained and intimidated by the experienced Amelia. She endures bondage, nipple clamps, humiliating inspections and punishment, culminating in a painful double caning.

So much happens in this 37-minute BDSM epic that there was no hope of me squeezing it all into the short scene description above. I decided to focus on my character's journey, but you only need to look at the tag list or trailer to get a sense of just how much else is packed into this movie. (The tag list is so long it almost breaks the page layout!)

Specifically, the scene description fails to mention any of Amelia's myriad kinky activities, including gruelling slavegirl postures, strapping, spanking, hot wax and a flogging on her back and bottom - all of which she submits to with sublime grace and poise.

This is one of my oldest fantasies. It's got a dark non-consensual edge (the implication that my character has consented to be enrolled in this establishment out of desperation, rather than because she is kinky) but otherwise it's absolutely classic. The idea is not original in the slightest: this scene has echoes in dozens of erotic novels.

I'm honoured to have had the help of the talented Hywel and Amelia in bringing this fantasy to life, and indebted to Hywel for his expertise behind the scenes, particularly in taking over the direction from me to allow me to concentrate on performance.

In our version of this classic concept, the Morpheus Club is an underground society with a faintly historical flavour. Members are kinky men and women with a range of tastes; all of them top, and some of them switch. Male and female 'pets' are recruited by fair means or foul - some are the equal partners of members who give full consent; others have less choice in the matter. Members have equal access to all pets, and training is undertaken collectively, but new pets are often mentored by their recruiter. As a natural consequence of the cast, this scene is pure M/F, but there's more to the Morpheus Club than that, and we'll see more of it in future episodes. 

For me, the hottest parts during filming were the inspections, both kneeling before the Doctor, and exposed on all fours on the table with my new employers dispassionately discussing my body and reactions. That moment is the hardest part of this scene for my character, and undoes some of the confidence she gained during the bondage. This was the first time I'd played with Hywel (exciting!) and my nervousness about whether he'd find me pleasing was quite real. But I also had a lot of fun with the nipple clamps, slave training, picking things up in my teeth, and watching my handsome boyfriend flog beautiful Amelia. And, of course, the spankings!

Watching the finished film back, more things leap out at me. Amelia's hot wax sequence is one of the most glorious pieces of D/S play I've ever had the privilege to film. Her grace is just astonishing, and the genuine chemistry between her and Hywel is a joy to watch. Oh, and there are quite a lot of shots of both Amelia and I crawling on all fours with our bottoms in the air, which I hope some of you will enjoy.

You can find more of Hywel and Amelia's work at Hywel's bondage website Restrained Elegance, where Amelia is the resident slavegirl as her alter ego Ariel Anderssen. They have also made several bondage and spanking feature films which can be found at Elegance Studios. Their work is artistic, imaginative and beautifully executed, with the highest production values of any kinky studio in the UK. Spanking fans will particularly enjoy their domestic discipline movie Amelia's Sunday Spanking, which I've reviewed on my other blog here.

F/F shoot with Zoe Montana

I've just come back from a day shooting with the lovely Zoe Montana. She was on one of the first Dreams of Spanking shoots back in 2009, before she left the UK for her native Australia. We've kept in touch since then, and met up once on a brief visit back in London. Now, she's currently back in the UK for a few weeks. I knew she had a lot of different things planned while she was here, but to my delight we're managing to see loads of each other - including shooting some new spanking scenes for the site.

It was a low-key, informal shoot with a couple of friends, John and Isabella, who both kindly agreed to step in as camera operators, despite not having been on a spanking video shoot before. I carried my camera, lights, tripod and other equipment by hand on the train, and during the shoot I handled all the technical setup myself. A year ago this would have stressed me out, but I've come a long way since then. It was lovely to feel so beautifully portable and self-sufficient, with enough production experience to know what I was doing.

I decided to keep the scenes relatively simple, focussing on the connection between Zoe and I and freeing up energy to concentrate on our mutual love of hard CP. In the first two scenes we play a domme/sub couple who are going out to a play party. It's the first time Zoe's taken her new sub out in public. They get ready together, with Zoe choosing lingerie, jewellery and accessories for her submissive, including nipple clamps to wear under her dress. With the addition of some vivid cane stripes, the outfit is complete.

In the second film, the two ladies return home from the party and share their memories of the evening as they indulge in an erotic bedroom scene. Things get hot and steamy, with lots of teasing, sensual touch, playing with the nipple clamps and, of course, spanking! I experienced Zoe's hand, some painful strokes with the riding crop, and finally an intense and very sexy caning.

In the third scene we played two housemates who have very different attitudes to environmental issues. Zoe has asked Pandora again and again to remember to separate the recycling and compostables from landfill. Eventually, she is obliged to resort to a spanking to remind Pandora of the importance of looking after our planet.

Zoe's character was meant to be in the right, but she also played her earth mother character for laughs, producing a perfect parody of a dippy hippy. We had to cut a few times to cover our giggles, and I think the result should be rather entertaining. The punishment was pretty serious though - a hard, extended over the knee spanking with hand and wooden paddle.

Here are some behind the scenes photos:

We're shooting with Zoe again next week, to film some more F/F and F/M scenes with Adele Haze and Jimmy Holloway at a very special venue. I'm so very glad to have the chance for not one, but two spanking shoots with Zoe while she's here this time!


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