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Her Ladyship's Breakfast

Tonight, I want to share with you the first F/M scene I produced for Dreams of Spanking, and the only "pure" F/M scene we're launching with (if you exclude F/MF). It's called "Her Ladyship's Breakfast" and it represents a whole heap of firsts, actually: 

  • The first time real life couple Adele Haze and Jimmy Holloway played together on camera
  • Adele's first scene for us as a top
  • The first scene of the day on our shoot with talented photographer Daniel R, an old online friend who spent a day taking beautiful photos for (and of!) us
  • The first scene I produced/directed without also performing in it
  • My first attempt to produce/direct a spanking scene with a male spankee.

I'd done a lot of thinking about malesub spanking before getting to this point - going from political sympathy and outrage with the general shortage of beautiful, empathic spanking scenes which treat male submissive bodies as sexy, to starting to look out for this sort of material and, in fact, developing a taste for it. I had some very clear ideas about what I wanted. Physical chemistry between the characters; subtle characterisation and complex motivations; a romantic, elegant aesthetic and a strong visual focus on the appealing form of the male spankee. Mutual sexual desire, but focussing particularly on the desire, affection and respect the female top feels for her beautiful, strong, vulnerable male bottom. 

Adele and Jimmy, close friends of mine and long term supporters of this project, had been playing together for five months, and it was a new dynamic for both of them. I had particularly enjoyed following my friend Jimmy's journey into affirming, positive bottoming and submission with a nurturing partner who respected his limits.

These days, the pair switch easily between roles and Jimmy has developed a very sexy confidence as a top/dom. But when we shot this scene they were still quite strongly in an F/M place, and I'm really glad that we were able to capture the unique flow of energy between them in this amazing scene.

What stands out to me about these images is the heat in Adele's gaze as she looks at Jimmy; his exquisite nude figure and heartbreaking vulnerability; the palpable D/S dynamic which implies no weakness on Jimmy's part, but rather strengthens both of them by their mutual trust.

Perhaps I can feel this more acutely because I'm not, personally, in it, but for me this embodies the principle that you should make the kind of porn you like to look at. I can't stop looking at this one, and I hope you like looking at it, too.

Click on any of the images to view the free gallery. The full set of 149 high res photographs plus behind the scenes commentary by Adele and Jimmy will be available to view on this site from December 23.



What can I say? I love every one of these photos! The lighting, the costumes... absolutely stunning. I would gladly hang these images on my wall. Thankyou!!

You're very welcome! Glad you appreciate this, it's one of my personal favourites :)

A few of images have already found their way into pictureframes for the performers, actually. I wonder if people would be interested in buying photographic prints from their favourite scenes as presents for partners...?

Wall art

Given the quality of some of the photo-sets as still arts, as well as what they offer in narrative context, might be worth a post-launch SnS blog post / poll?

Something along those lines, yes. :)


I still think it rocked, and it particularly enhanced this scene. :)

It really suits him, doesn't it? Not so good for playing a schoolboy, but I really like that the male sub in this is not only a relatively powerful character (butlers have authority below stairs) but also butch, and no less beautiful for it.

(Speaking of butlers and authority, between the two of you we do seem to go in for bearded butlers, don't we?)

Beards Below Stairs

Have I buttled for you yet? I don't recall doing so...

Yep, you punished young Miss Gray in relation to the bunnies incident :)


Oh, goodness, yes. I'd lost that detail from my memory of the day. So may other memorable things were happening!

Bunny incident. Hmph :)

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